This is the final post in the series on the REACT framework™, a practical and powerful framework that enables you to be the best you want to be, and to be in this position on virtually every occasion. I have developed and optimised the REACT framework™ over time. I use it personally, and I help my clients to learn how to use this powerful tool to have available to them the resources they need to be the best they want to be.
The framework enables you to recognise and evaluate your current state and to then identify and claim the appropriate resources that will enable you to be in the optimum state to be the best you want to be, in order to achieve what you really want – your Big Dream(s). A fuller explanation is available in the bonus material that accompanies the book ‘Dance with the Elephants’ which you can get from http://bit.ly/BonusMaterials
As you can see in the table above, the last element of the framework is T, which is for Take your claimed resources forward with you. When I work with people to help them get the most out of the REACT framework™, the best way is to do so in a safe environment. So it is important that I help them to experience using the resources that they have claimed in their minds before using them in the real world as they strive to achieve what they really want (for example, successfully presenting to a large group of people at work). I work with them so that they fully experience what could be possible using their claimed resources. It is important that they experience in their minds before they attempt their goal (e.g. their presentation) in real life. Repeatedly imagining in their minds how things could be strengthens their confidence and capability, as they build different scenarios that might happen and work out how they will use their claimed resources.
Sometimes this gives them the confidence to move on. Sometimes they discover that something is missing, they do not have all the resources they need. In this situation, I work with them to identify what appropriate resource(s) is or are missing, to claim those resources and to take them with them. This can take several iterations, but curiosity, compassion and creativity always win the day.
The final step is to help them with the learned skill of accessing these resources again at the time they are needed. This is largely a question of practice leading to confidence and familiarity. I always remind them to run through the REACT framework™ shortly before going into the situation where they need all the appropriate resources with them. In practising running through REACT, I will introduce the ‘triggers’ that will help them more easily, more quickly and more powerfully access the appropriate resource to support them. Creating, cultivating and calling on these triggers will be covered in a subsequent bonus material which will be available from http://bit.ly/BonusMaterials . For now, I encourage you to practice the use of REACT to counter the limiting influence, power and control of your other-than-conscious mind so that you will be able to be the best you want to be almost all the time.
Now you have knowledge of all five elements of the REACT framework™ it is time to ask yourself a question: – how committed are you to being the best you want to be? I hope you are fully committed, and if you are I would like to help you and others like you. I have developed a low-cost, experiential and interactive workshop that will enable you to hone and perfect your use of the REACT framework™ to enable you to be the best you want to be. You can find out more here http://bit.ly/REACTworkshop
Here’s a bonus for you. Not only do you get to learn how to use the REACT framework™, but also let me share with you my personal experience which will make your use of it even more effective. I want you to understand the vital importance of the Evaluate step.
I was planning to use a holiday period to complete a large quantity of very substantial pieces of work, significant in both volume and value to my business. I did not feel I needed to run REACT – I had successfully achieved such volume and value in the holiday period precisely one year earlier, and I had the triggers to help me access the resources I had used twelve months earlier. It would not be an absolute certainty to complete the tasks, but I had done so previously and was very confident that I could do so again.
Day one of the holiday period was fantastic. I completed a large volume of work and was very pleased with the extent of my progress and the quality of the output. I even recall thinking that, if I progressed at the same rate for the next few days, I would be able to reward myself with a totally indulgent day with a TV series box-set and a couple of hours reading a book I was looking forward to. I was in a wonderful mood that evening and slept the sleep of the contented.
Day two was a disaster! I could not focus, I could not decide which task I wanted to move forward, and I kept distracting myself with tasks that were not on my ‘to do’ list. My output was minimal in both volume and quantity. I did not sleep well.
Day three was like day two, only I felt light-headed, somewhat warmer in my skin than I would have expected on a winter’s day, and slightly nauseous. The changes in my physiology almost automatically kicked off the REACT framework™ – they were so obvious that the recognition routine kicked in, perhaps initiated by my other-than-conscious mind. I recognised I was not in the best state, and moved to the evaluation phase. It was clear to me that I was ill (it later became apparent that I had an ear infection). I easily evaluated my state as ‘not fit for purpose’ for completing the tasks I wanted for the business. My learning (or reminder perhaps) is that your evaluation should include assessing the appropriateness of the resources you need to support you. Thus I realised the fact that I was ill should affect which appropriate resources I should select.
The resources I had a year earlier that had enabled me to achieve all I had that year were totally inappropriate. The resources I needed were those that I had previously had when I was ill – the situation I needed to recreate was a time when I had been clearly rather ill and had recovered quickly and effectively. That really wasn’t too difficult. I once had a bout of severe ‘man flu’ which really did hit me hard so I set about reliving that time. It was pretty easy to recall how I felt – pretty much how I was feeling this time around. As I relived history, I recalled the sights and sounds that had been around me, and the smell and taste of chicken soup and plain toast came to mind. The memories convinced me to break out the TV box-set, to prepare some soup (actually vegetable and pasta as they didn’t need defrosting), and to just chill out!
So when you are in Evaluate be realistic, be compassionate for your own needs, and choose resources that are appropriate to the state you are actually in, and not the state you would like to be in. Sometimes there is no direct route to the state we would like; we have to take the detour that allows us to make progress. Dogged determination to get straight to where we would like to be, to the state we want to be in to achieve our original goal just isn’t always enough to be effective.
Remember, if you are seriously committed to being the best you want to be, help is available to you here http://bit.ly/REACTworkshop